Home

Advertisement

Customize

Jan. 23rd, 2008

duck

Chloe Lucille

Born 12/29/07 at 6:28am

7 lbs 7 oz

19 inches

I'll post about the birth soon...

Dec. 18th, 2007

duck

Baby’s First Lesson: Punctuality

The 17th has come and gone, and as far as I can tell, we still have zero babies. That is one less baby than we were promised, so, yeah, we are a little peeved. We knew not to get set on the due date, that it was only a guess, a guideline, etc. But knowing something and incorporating that into your idea of how things are supposed to happen are two different things.

 
Does all the patience we have displayed in the 7 months since finding out about the baby mean nothing? I guess so. Because now Dr. Rogers is all, “You might want to prepare yourself for the long haul,” and “I’m thinking this might not happen until after Christmas.” Oh, come on!
 
Thursday, Stacey goes back to see Dr. Rogers, who will provide another status update. Melinda suggested asking about a procedure called, “membrane stripping.” (This does not sound pleasant to me, and I don’t even have a cervix.) Apparently, it could goad the uterus into beginning labor. We’ll see how Dr. Rogers feels about this practice, as it seems to be a hot topic in the OB/GYN world.  In addition, we’ll discuss our other options.
 
Meanwhile, we are making sure everything is ready at home. (We already know everything is ready on account of us getting everything ready last week, but we are making sure is everything ready one more time.) 
 
I’ll be sending out email notification and pictures when it finally does happen. (Hopefully your SPAM filter doesn’t automatically send our baby to the trash. She’s not going to like that.)  
 
So, until then enjoy another picture of her, in utero. 

Dec. 11th, 2007

duck

Suspended Animation

Six days left and no end in sight.   Stacey’s appointment last Thursday confirmed a few things: baby’s head is not engaged, fluid levels are still high, and cervical preparation has not begun, i.e. effacement, dilation, etc. These facts do not bode well for a timely arrival of the little one.
 
So we wait. Stacey is pretty much miserable, physically. And while I know she tries hard to keep spirits up, she is losing that battle to the constant fatigue. I keep reminding her that it will be easier once the baby comes, but I don’t even believe myself, so why would she?
 
Everything is done. Clothes organized by month, diapers stacked neatly by size, bags packed and waiting by the door. (That one is technically not true, but we plan on getting that done any day now.) I am wrapping all my projects at work and Stacey’s last day is Wednesday. We are ready, but apparently this kind of thing doesn’t necessarily go exactly to schedule. 
 
Baby got a few more pictures the other day. I don’t have the files here with me, but I’ll put some up soon. I’ll probably have plenty of time.  : )

Nov. 19th, 2007

duck

No pictures this time

Today marks the 36th week of baby incubation.   Dr. Rogers says that if Stacey goes into labor at this point,  they are just going let it happen.  So....wow.
 
Stacey is now visiting Dr. Rogers once a week. Last week, we learned that not much had changed since the week before.   Baby still moves around a lot. This week the amniotic fluid levels are supposed to peak and then start receding. This will crowd baby a little more than she has been used to, putting an end to a lot of the wiggling and kicking until labor begins. It is also important that baby keep her head down during this period, so that when she can no longer turn, she is in the optimal position for an orderly exit from the womb. Cross your fingers.
 
Have you ever heard of a doula? I had not, and nor has Microsoft Word 2003 as evidenced by the red squiggle it displays underneath the word. Any way, a doula is a birth coach of sorts, trained and certified in the art of supporting a laboring woman (and her partner). Stacey is going to try to avoid as much medical intervention as possible during labor, to include medication. She is not opposed to medication altogether, but considering the small risks that do come along with it, she is determined to get as far as she can without it. Also, statistics show a much lower incidence of caesarean birth with a doula helping out. And we would very much like to avoid a caesarean. 
 
As I mentioned, a doula is also very helpful for the partner. She is well versed in methods such as: “calming the screaming lady,” “fetching the ice chips,” and “quickly forgetting insults that were, perhaps, uncalled for but cannot be helped due to the extreme nature of the situation.” 
 
So, after seeking recommendations and interviewing a few prospects, we hired a duola. Her name is Melinda. Tonight will be our first official meeting with her, where we discuss a birth plan and what to expect during birth. I’ll let you know how it goes.

Nov. 8th, 2007

duck

Silver Lining

One of the more positive side-effects of all this extra sonography is the abundance of previews we are getting. I thought I would share these pictures just captured this morning.


Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket
In Picture #1, we see baby resting comfortably. Note the fat baby arm and adorable little hands. I knew she was going to be cute, but...come on!

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket
Here in Picture #2, you can see that the chubby cheeks have come in. (That's how you know they are just about done.)

And apparently, she has hair! (Not pictured)  Woo-hoo!

Nov. 7th, 2007

duck

Unhappy Circumstances

Last week was a...difficult…week.  We learned very early last Tuesday morning, that Stacey’s grandmother passed away.  Her health has been locked in steep decline for several years now, a fact that she always seemed oblivious to.  (“When I get out of this wheelchair…”) We are not even sure exactly what disease or affliction ailed her, I think I remember hearing discussion about idiopathic neuropathy and COPD, but she had been suffering increasingly frequent episodes that required emergency trips to the hospital.  This last time, she did not make it through.

 
Stacey had always been close to her grandmother.  And I’m not sure there was anybody more excited for the arrival of our baby girl, the first great-grandchild.  I think when we told her about the baby, she said “Oh, this makes me so happy!” at least four separate times.  So, it is hard to know how close she came to seeing that great-granddaughter.  And hard to know that our daughter will never know her great-grandmother, who wanted so much to be there.

 

The baby is still doing well.  Stacey is scheduled for yet another ultrasound tomorrow.  Dr. Rogers would like to monitor the baby’s growth and the amniotic fluid levels.  She swears that she is not concerned about anything in particular, and just would to have all the bases covered. 

 

Also, my co-workers are throwing us a baby shower tomorrow afternoon. This one, I’m going to have to attend, so we’ll see how that goes.  I better not have to guess the pregnant lady’s weight or something, that game never ends well. 

Oct. 25th, 2007

duck

Not much longer now

So the nursery is just about done. All I can say is: I hope the sonographer was right about the sex, because our baby boy would definitely have the prettiest room on the block. 
 
I never realized how many accessories babies need. Diaper receptacles, swings, strollers, car seats, blanket upon blanket, carriers and that is only what we’ve already collected. There is so much more stuff we “need”. And I think we might be out of room to store it. The closet in the baby’s room is already filled to the brim, every time I open it up I’m buried in an avalanche of tiny pink dresses and lace trimmed bloomers. 
 
Stacey is still doing well…considering.  Silly baby is already causing problems.  Everytime we check, she is in a different position.  She is pretty fond of the traverse lie, which is evidenced by the two round lumps sticking out either side of Stacey's belly.  Hopefully, she'll settle into the all-important head-down positinon in the next few weeks.  But we did find out that we might have a little longer for that happen than the average pregnancy.

At the last visit, Dr. Rogers told us that Stacey is “poly.” This is short for polyhydramnios, which, as a quick Google search will tell you, is a condition that causes the uterus to carry too much amniotic fluid.   In addition to making her look 9 months pregnant when she was only 6 ½, it also caused Stacey to suffer prematurely from maladies typically reserved for those closer to term. The most debilitating of which is the excruciating sciatica-like pains every time she gets up from a sitting position. (And a baby who can rotate freely.)  Dr. Rogers suggests that the pain combined with her ever-expanding belly will force her to stop working earlier than planned.
 
There are suspected causes for this condition, including health issues for the baby, but there is no evidence of anything wrong. Many cases are unexplained and remedy themselves as the due date approaches. We are hoping that Stacey’s case is the latter. We’ll keep you updated. 
 
Not a whole lot else going on. I think we are getting closer to deciding on a name, if we already haven’t. But we still aren’t telling. We don’t want anybody’s involuntary grimace at the sound to tarnish the name.  And besides, she might not look like that name and a last minute change would be very confusing for everyone.  
 
Every day that passes, we are more excited.  It’s crazy to think that within 6 – 10 weeks, there will be someone else living in our house. Someone really small and pretty much useless as far as the housework goes, but someone whose arrival is still very much anticipated.   

Oct. 1st, 2007

duck

Only 11 weeks of sleep left!

Been like a month since the last post. So what’s new? 
 
Let’s see. Stacey is now 29 weeks along. Middle of the seventh month and into the third trimester. Everything is going smoothly, relatively. Stacey got sick this last week which was no fun for any of us. As if the back pain and leg cramps and general discomfort of carrying around a child was not enough. Now we got headaches, sore throats and a million nasty Kleenexes strewn about the house.  Not fun.
 
Stacey has transitioning into seeing the doctor twice a month. I have transitioned into not going to those. Its pretty much the same every time, and I can’t get an afternoon off every other week. I’m saving up vacation for the arrival since  I am going to try to be there for the first 3-4 weeks. 
 
She had the gestational diabetes test the other day. It came back negative, so we are really lucky that we don’t have to deal with that. 
 
Our baby is growing at an astonishing rate, at least according to Your Pregnancy, Week by Week. We can’t see her as she is obscured by the womb. She is now about 2.5 pounds, but I cannot remember which vegetable represents her approximate size. Maybe a cantaloupe or some kind of gord. 
 
Our child birthing class continues to go well. This week is breastfeeding. I can’t figure out how we are going to fill two hours talking about breastfeeding. Take a breast, attach a baby, rinse, repeat.   There. I did it in 3 seconds. I guess we’ll find out this Wednesday. 
 
So the annoying dude with the cell phone who really seemed like he wished he was anywhere else. I guess he got his wish, because he never came back.  Stacey and I suspect that the girl he knocked up realized what a tool he was, perhaps at the very same moment as us, and kicked him to the curb. Better to raise a child alone, than with a dumbass father, that’s what I always say. Anyway, she’s got her friend coming to class now. They seem good together. 
 
The girl who looks 14. Stacey thinks maybe she’s older, but I’m sticking to my original assessment. She comes with another pregnant lady who also looks very young and has difficultly controlling the volume of her voice. We’ll be in a darkened room watching a heart-warming baby movie on VHS, and suddenly this lady is jabbering away at her partner. Now, I might lean over and whisper something relevant to Stacey every now and again, but this lady is attempting to converse as if she is on an airport tarmac. Also, she doesn’t speak English, and while I have no problem with non-English speakers, I don’t like when the jabber loudly in a quiet darkened room while I’m trying to watch a baby being born.
 
Trivia: Loud Talker is 14 Year Old’s aunt. They are from Mexico.  Pregnant Mexicans cannot whisper.

Aug. 31st, 2007

duck

Change my ways

I sure hope neglect of my baby’s blog does not directly translate into neglect of my baby. In an effort make it up to the little fetus, here is a brand new update. 
 
Recently, I have been to actually feel her move around in there. Finally! It is pretty cool that Stacey can put my hand on her belly and I can tell when the baby kicks or jumps or hiccups or does her little fetal acrobatics. At this point, there really is no doubting that a tiny person is on the way. Every day we are getting closer.
 
The nursery is coming along. We spent most of last weekend painting and I think we are done with the majority of it. Still some touch-up to do. Next time you are in the MLT area, stop by and we’ll give you the tour.
 
We started an 8 week class at Stevens just the other day. It is put on by a consulting company called Great Starts and promises to teach us all about labor, delivery, newborn care, nursing and where to park the car with the screaming lady in the passenger seat. There are some real interesting folks in this class. (By “real interesting folks,” I mean 14-year old girls and dumbass fathers who can’t figure out how to stop texting during class.) 

Something tells me I might have some stories about these people in the weeks to come.

Aug. 15th, 2007

duck

OMG!

For those of you who speak exclusively in whole words, the title of this post is Oh My God! Which is exactly what I said today when I saw the 3D picture of our baby girl on the sonogram machine. Now the still picture (which I digitized by photographing it with my digital camera) you see here, does not do her justice. I mean she was moving and wiggling about. You could see her tiny hand move in and out of frame (depicted here as a little claw thing on her cheek.)

This picture beats the last one we got to take home, hands down. See alien reference below.


Aug. 8th, 2007

duck

More of the same

We had another appointment scheduled with Dr. Rogers on Monday. Unfortunately, her mobility is hampered by a recently surgically repaired knee. So we saw a nurse practitioner instead. Which was fine, since the appointments now are little more than a 15 minute chat about how Stacey is feeling. We listened to the heartbeat again. It started off slow then suddenly picked up speed. The NP speculated that the baby moved and the activity made her heart go faster. Which, she explained, is a good sign, that the baby was developing normally. The uterus was measured and found to be around the correct size for 21-week old fetal housing. Also a good sign.
 
Stacey is now able to feel the baby move, which must be great for her. I still can’t feel it, so, well…that’s unfair. But the doctors say I should be able to feel it in the next few weeks, as the baby gets larger. I’m pretty excited for that milestone.
 
What else? We bought a crib this weekend (or should I say my parents bought us a crib.) We have lots of work to do still converting the spare bedroom into a nursery. I’ll be doing some more painting in the next few weeks, which it seems like I am always doing…
 
Stacey is pretty visibly pregnant at this point, wearing the maternity clothes and whatnot. She is now practically guaranteed a seat on the bus. Even the standing room only route from Lynnwood to her job in Bellevue.
 
Wow, this post is pretty boring. I mean there are lots of facts in it, but it’s not really all that interesting. I promise next time I’ll jazz it up with some irony or oxymoron or baby animal fun-facts or something.

Jul. 25th, 2007

duck

And the results are in...

We had to reschedule our ultrasound appointment due to work-related conflicts. Fortunately, we moved it up one day. Which means we just finished up. 
 
Which also means we now know that we are having a girl!
 
Now I understand some of you will be slightly disappointed and some of you will be absolutely thrilled. But what is most important to keep in mind here is that I was right. All your intuitions and psychic mumbo-jumbo failed you. And science has prevailed, once again.
 
OK. Now that’s out of the way. The appointment went pretty much how one might imagine it would. Exposed belly, application of clear jelly substance, sonographer pointing out anatomical features despite our persistent inability to discern them.  We spent some time measuring baby’s head, arms, legs. We thoroughly examined the spine. It all looked good to me.  But what is most important is that the sonsographer saw no reason to believe there was a problem. 
 
Every now and again, the image on the screen would focus and it looked like an actual baby.   And that was amazing. We could count fingers and legs and I had my eye out for any extra babies in there. Just making sure there was still only one. There was.
 
According to the sonographer, the baby was positioned in a way that made it difficult to photograph, meaning that we might have to go back. Which is good, because we ran out of time to play with the 3D rendering application. 
 
We got a picture, which I have brought with me to work. I am proudly displaying on my cubicle wall. It kinda looks like an adorable baby’s face.   It also kinda looks like a terrifying creature from Alien. 

Jul. 10th, 2007

duck

You have a 50% chance of being right...

We had another appointment with Dr. Rogers this last week. She did not have anything spectacular planned, as I had hoped; but, it was a good appointment, nonetheless. We started off with more talk about diet and vitamins. We listened for the heartbeat with that microphone again, which I learned is called a Doppler. (I know what you are thinking, but wikipedia already knew that. So don’t bother rushing home from the doctor’s office to add it.) 
 
It was a little nerve-wracking when we didn’t hear the little heartbeat right away. Last time, Dr. Rogers found it in a couple seconds. This time it was about a full minute of searching the uterus, high and low, before the swishing sound showed up.  It was a little slow. 130.  Not dangerously slow, which evidently is somewhere in the 100 area.  Not sure what the units on those numbers are. If I had to make an educated guess… kilometers, probably.
 
The doctor told Stacey that it sounded like a boy. I wish she hadn’t done that. It only helps to perpetuate the myth that a first-time mother can somehow, through some sort of magical, make-believe feeling, discern the sex of the child. No frame of reference, just a feeling. Also, apparently this ability to intuit extends to people who do not share a circulatory system with the baby, as Corina and Kate also, are “totally sure” it is a boy. I will be truly happy either way, boy or girl. But there is a part of me that is rooting for a girl so we can agree that they all don’t have any idea what they are talking about. 
 
Sidetracked.  Anyway. So, the heartbeat might have been hard to find, speculated the doctor, because the placenta might be attached to the front uterine wall. Acts as a barrier to the Doppler. Also, it might prevent Stacey from feeling the baby move around until 22 weeks or so. That is a little disappointing to us both, because feeling the baby move is supposed to be one of the things that makes the mother realize she is carrying a little person. Not just a parasite that makes you fat. (Her words, not mine.)
 
Stacey seems to be feeling better. She is not completely nausea free, but day-to-day activities are manageable. She is doing really well with the changes. She still tries to eat well, tries to make it to the gym when she has time. It’s a lot of work to be pregnant. But it’s worth it. To me, at least.
 
The anatomical ultrasound is scheduled for 7/26. That is the day we will probably find out if we are having a girl or boy. They say it is not 100% accurate, but I’ll put my money on that. I tend to trust science over voodoo. Call me crazy.

Jun. 21st, 2007

duck

No news is good news...

Sorry for the lack of updates. Nothing has really happened since you last heard from me. I guess I could provide you with a summary of the most recent events:
 
- Stacey is always sick. She has never thrown up, but most of her evenings are spent writhing on the couch in a nauseous stupor. It does not seem like a pleasant experience. And I feel really bad for her. I feel worse that there is absolutely nothing I can do. (Not even playing Xbox in the other room seems to help, strangely enough.) She somehow gets up every day and goes to work, but I don’t think she likes it. I can tell by the way she is crying on the way to the bus stop.  
 
- I am pretty unimpressed with the rate at which this thing progresses. I thought, especially after skipping a whole month of the pregnancy, that things would begin to fly by. Not so. We are now in the 14th week (I think…) and everything is pretty much the same, other than Stacey’s constant misery, that is. Things better start getting a whole lot cooler for the both of us, or I am going to be a lot less likely to do this again.
 
- We gutted the awesome “Cave of Manly Pursuits”, and replaced it with a soothing yellow guest room.  Yeah, so that’s cool, I guess…
 
- The other day Stacey wanted to eat some Scotch tape. Then asked me not to tell anyone.  How am I going to keep that a secret?
 
We are scheduled for another appointment with Dr. Rogers on July 5th. She better have some awesome things planned. 

Jun. 12th, 2007

duck

Baby's First Picture

We had our first appointment with the OB/GYN last Wednesday. That was pretty interesting. Dr. Rogers’ office is directly across the street from Stevens Hospital, which is right across I-5 from us. Since we live in Mountlake Terrace, it makes more sense to deliver there, regardless of the fact that everyone who is anyone delivers at Swedish. It is apparently the “it” place to push a baby out of you. We are so unrefined.

Stacey was weighed, measured, prodded, poked, and otherwise thoroughly examined. I was congratulated and given a diaper bag full of new stuff. They talked about nausea and hydration, diet and exercise, vitamins and nausea again. I found a cool, rubber thing in my new bag.

We suspected that Stacey was about 8 weeks along. I won’t go into the details about how we figured that out, but you might be able to guess. The point of the story is: we figured wrong. During the physical examination, Dr. Rogers said, “I think this might be a tax-break baby!” She grabbed a little microphone and placed it on Stacey’s belly. A second later, you could hear a little swishing noise.

“There’s the heartbeat. You are definitely not 8 weeks.”

She wheeled in an ultrasound and fired it up. It took a minute, but we could make out a little, tiny baby-shaped picture on the screen. You even could see the heart, blinking away in the center of the picture. I could not stop grinning.

So in the end, we found out were off by 4 weeks. It was 12, not 8. Stacey cut a month off her pregnancy, and we are expecting the baby to arrive around December 17. Which also means we are having a baby this year!

For some reason, we did not come home with a hardcopy of the ultrasound… But not to worry! I mocked up an almost exact replica on a post-it. This is from memory, so the angles might not be exact (I think I could have worked on the shading a little more). I also labeled it, so those of you not familiar with interpreting ultrasounds can see what is going on. Anyway, its pretty good looking baby, I think. 


Jun. 4th, 2007

high five

It would appear that we are having a baby!

I hope that by the time you come across this page, the title of this post is not a surprise to you. Stacey and I have been making an effort to find some one-on-one time with all our friends and family, so that we might gauge all your reaction to our big news. (If this blog does serve as your first notice, please take some time to jot down your initial thoughts/reactions, maybe snap a quick picture of the look on your face, and shoot it off in an email to one or both of us. Thanks!)
 
At the urging of Stacey and a few friends, I offer up this blog as a chronicle of our very first pregnancy.  Please come by every now and again as I try to keep the posts coming. I will try to keep it interesting, although, no one could be as excited about this as I am. So, please forgive me if we occasionally disagree on the blogworthiness of the upcoming events. 

Corina - Note that I said "a baby."  Singular.  One. :)

Advertisement

Customize